Ways to avoid negative people

ways to avoid negative people


In life you’ll have people who support you no matter what you do. And there are people who will doubt and criticize your choices. Maybe you want to get married and your parents disagree with your choice of spouse. Or you want to move to another job and your friends think you’re making a big mistake. People can disagree with you no matter what you do.

In business, it’s the same way. Many people aren’t as lucky as I was when I first got started several years ago.   My husband and family supported me and they always believed in me. But there were distant relatives and even some very close friends who thought I made the biggest mistake when I left my six figure job.

Regardless of what you do, there will always be people who discourage you from pursuing the thing you wanted to do. Sometimes it almost seems like these people are happy to see you fail,  that they just wanted to say “I told you so“.  In reality, we should be happy for successful people. We should celebrate their success because entrepreneurs are a rare breed. They walked down the path that’s less traveled.  While most people are afraid of failure, entrepreneurs know that failures are to be celebrated. For this reason alone, I admire my fellow entrepreneurs.

Anywho, I wanted to give you several tips on how to avoid negatives:

1) Find ways to limit your contact with negative people. Obviously this isn’t going to happen if it happens to be your spouse or someone very close to you. The more my business grow the more I distant myself from people who don’t believe in my vision, because I proved them wrong in the first time but people are always looking for something to prove themselves right. 😉

Now here’s the thing, even if you’re surrounded by the most negative people in the world, you can still create a positive environment for yourself if you read, listen and watch any personal growth materials.

2) You’re your own worse enemy. Look at the person inside the mirror. The only person you need to compete with is that person that you see in the mirror everyday. People don’t believe in themselves and I often hear people who say “I hate myself”. Now listen, you must first believe in yourself and love yourself. Quit judging yourself, learn to love and respect yourself, and others will naturally be inclined to follow you.

3) This may sound like a broken record, but you have to remain optimistic and positive. Attitude is altitude. Though I want you to remember this, being positive alone will never produce result. I know people who invest in hundreds of hours of personal development but they remain broke. Why?  Just like a diamond in the rough, you need to polish yourself by taking action to bring your talents and what you’ve learned to fruition.

4) Ignore your haters and the negative people. The more you pay attention to them, the more they enjoy getting the attention they’re seeking. Their goal is to prove themselves right, they’re judging you because their mind has been shaped a certain way. If you want to succeed, you must learn how to ignore that negative noise.  The best revenge to your haters is by show them the end result, a successful person.

5) Invest in yourself. Simply put, if you’re not learning and growing you have no business. The industry is constantly evolving, there are always new things we can learn to improve ourselves and our business. The greatest leaders and businessmen/businesswomen in history are relentless in their pursuit of knowledge.

I want you to know and realize that this business comes down to three things:

– Getting traffic
– Conversion
– Personal development. “Your income can only grow to the extent that you do” – T Harv Eker (Author of Millionaire Mind). Mindset determines your outcome in your business. Hint: Average CEOs read 4-5 books a month. 

With that being said, hone up your skills, read/watch/listen to good materials that can help your business and yourself. Get productive!



What you really need to be successful

If you are on many marketers’ email newsletter lists, you are probably used to seeing them asking you to buy product after product on a consistent basis.

You would see all these emails from them asking you to buy “the latest and greatest product that can make you $$$$$$$“, yet more than 90% of the time you would only end up being disappointed and frustrated with little to no results.

With that being said, I want to talk to you about what you really need to be successful in this industry.

I remember when I first started in 2007, I listened to people who looked like they were making serious money online. I trusted that they had my best interests in mind, and I thought they knew what they were doing to help me start generating income online.

But boy…I was dead wrong…it did not take long for me to be overwhelmed!  I have had unethical marketers who screwed me in this business.
I failed many times, over and over again. It was sickening.

I am going to tell you as it is now.  It is easy for you to get lost in this industry. This industry is like the big ocean, and you can be bitten at any time by those sharks surrounding you.

I was ready to quit when I became overwhelmed with the vast amount of information out there.

And because I had a high salary job, I always took it for granted and thought of my job as a “cushion“. The worse part was I had the “what if my business didn’t work” mentality. That was one big mistake because I did not take my business seriously.

If you are feeling overwhelmed and tired of all the empty promises and hypes now, I understand and I can fully relate to you because I was once in your shoes.

When my husband and I decided to have a child, we came to a point where we talked about the need for me to stay home and be available for our child. Both our mothers were always there for us. In fact, I had the best childhood because my Mother was always there for me. That was the reason I wanted to do the same for our child.

You see, I always thought that women would have to make sacrifices, to go one way or the other. The thought of leaving my job was scary to me!  After all I worked for the biggest software company and had a great career.  Many people thought I was stupid to leave my job.

What was scary to me at the time turned out to be one of the best decisions I have ever made. I left my high salary job in 2010, and made up my mind to make my business work.

My daughter was the absolute turning point. She was the reason that my life changed completely. Ever heard the saying that you’re your own biggest enemy? This statement is pure truth. I embarked on a journey to conquer myself.  “The first and best victory is to conquer self” – Plato

I stopped competing with other marketers. I worked on myself harder and became laser focused on taking action, not results. I started thinking in ways I never would thought possible before.

Let me tell you, I loved to shop before (what girls don’t like to shop!).

I would not think twice about buying that new pair of $300 boots. Now, I think twice about buying anything non business related. Not because I cannot afford what I wanted, but because my passion and thoughts have changed completely. I would ask myself this simple question “do I need this or do I want this?”

And now, I don’t think twice about investing into traffic and tools that can help my business grow. It is pure entrepreneur mindset right here.

I am amazed at how much I could do after just being laser focused in one year. I saw what was possible in this industry, and constant steady income started flowing to my bank account.

So here are the important key takeaway from all these…the bottom line of what you really need to be successful in this industry.

1) Focus on one business. Do your research and stick with one plan for six months. Give it your all and do not think of the profit or the money (this one is hard but if you can disconnect money from building a business, you will be golden).  I am all about multiple streams of income, but for your own benefit, do not branch out into another business until you see results.

2) Only buy tools or traffic, things that actually will help your business.

3) Do not be afraid of failure. There is no perfect action, but realize that any action you take today bring you that much closer to your goal.

4) Establish a series of tasks for your business. Consistency is key.

5) Help others. People will love you and believe equally in what you do.

6) Do not spam others and follow what the majority of Internet Marketers do.

7) Find a mentor, who actually have their best interests in you to succeed. Do what they have to say, do not question anything. It is either you work with someone who are up there already and give you their full blueprint to success, or you continue to struggle for many years to come.

Finally, surround yourself with like minded entrepreneurs and leaders who actually want to see you succeed.

Consistency is Key

Consistency is Key



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